Life rattles us. It leaves us breathless and confused.
Everyone likes to say that everything happens for a reason, so we can comfort ourselves in the midst of feeling utterly dumbfounded. Maybe if we feed ourselves clichés, the blows will not impact us as badly. However, it doesn’t soothe my perplexed soul. Hoping for better days doesn’t necessarily remedy the ache now.
We are a people who yearns, who demands understanding. If you ever doubt that, let’s just talk about Google. Or even before that, AskJeeves. We don’t sit well in waiting to see how things unfold, in not knowing the outcome, in not knowing the motivation behind the decision, the statement, the crime.
Yet, we are forced to wait. We are forced to throw our hands up and declare that we just don’t get it, that it just doesn’t add up. Finally, we can just throw in the towel and feel defeated. And maybe in that defeat, that’s where we find some relief. Maybe in finally admitting we just don’t get it, we start to consider we’re not the first ones to feel this way. We also start to see that we are not made to understand everything.
To those who don’t get it, you’re not alone.
Searching for answers that are to not be found leaves you weary and frustrated, but you are in good company.
Abraham surely didn’t get it when he and his wife were childless. What a humiliation that was in that ancient culture. He didn’t hear from the Lord until he was in his seventies; any dream of a child was long gone. Yet, the Lord was at work even in the young days of Abraham, even in the tears that were wept. And that’s only the beginning of Abraham’s story and his state of confusion.
The people of Israel surely didn’t get it when the Pharaoh commanded all the baby boys to be killed. Moses’ mom surely didn’t get it as she hid her son for three months and finally sent him down the Nile. Yet, the Lord was at work, and that’s only the beginning of Moses and how the Lord rescued His people from slavery.
Joseph surely didn’t get it when his brothers sold him into slavery, when he was accused of a crime he did not commit. Yet, the Lord was at work not only redeeming Joseph, not only reconciling Joseph to his family, but preparing the people for a great famine. The Lord was using what was meant for evil for his good.
Oh, Job. No one could explain what was happening, In fact, his friends and his wife gave him wrong counsel; they tried to set the Lord against his soul. And friends, in the dark night of the soul, we’ve been there. Everything seems dark. Yet, the Lord was at work in Job’s life showing him the Lord’s purpose just cannot be thwarted, that even in the midst of everything being taken, the One who calms the seas is to be trusted.
Fast forward to Jesus. He is crucified. Can you imagine the disciples that night? Can you imagine those prayers, those cries? They just did not get it. They saw their Savior die a gruesome death. They saw evil win. They were told promises from Jesus, but grief must have been felt in the depth of their bones.
Yet, the Lord was at work. All of what was perceived wasn’t so. Evil didn’t win. The disciples surely cried out in those three days; his mother surely cried and cried, felt an ache so strong that it couldn’t be articulated. Yet, the Lord was at work. He didn’t forsake His people; in fact in the midst of their crying, of their questioning, He was saving them by the death and three days later, resurrection of His Son.
So, maybe you just don’t get it. Well, you’re in good company.
The Lord is certainly at work in the “ugh, what is going on?”. He’s at work; He is being true to His character and has shown Himself completely trustworthy even in just the handful of examples. He’s at work displaying his goodness, his faithfulness even when we can’t see, even when all we perceive seems incredibly confusing and hopeless. He is a God who redeems even the most hopeless situations, so may the ache of not knowing, the ache of suffering be dulled tonight as you consider that the dawn will always beat the night, because we have a God who is for us.